How can your lover learn to please you if you never take the time to teach them?

I'll say it once and I'm going to keep saying it. Communication is Key! Communication is an important part of having good sex. The willingness to talk about the kind of sex you like or want is a key skill. This includes knowing when and where to have discussions around sex. Talking about sex after sex may come across as criticizing or nitpicking. Talking beforehand might get you uptight about delivering just exactly what your partner wants. 

Many of us are guilty of it. Many of us are dedicated to stopping it. Reminder: It is important to show up to each of your sexual experiences as authentically as you can. Remember that the only way to access the pleasure you deserve is by prioritizing it. What may worked for another partner may not work for the next. Express what you enjoy versus what you don't. Give explanations so your partner can better understand. 

Like & save this post, then send a text to your boo right now and tell them how much you miss them. Tell them how you loved (something specific) they did the last time y'all were together.